A workaround would be, in Design View, to design each page like you want it
to look. You need to do this, because after the next step, the tabs disappear
in Design View as well as when the form is run, and changing them in Design
View is impossible. If you make a mistake, you can always change the Style
back to Tabs temporarily.
Next, select the tabbed control (the entire control, not one of the tabbed
pages) and goto Properties - Format and set the Style Property to "None."
Next, create your own command buttons, placed wherever you want them.
In code behind the command buttons, use code like this
Private Sub Page1_Click()
Me.YourTabControlName = 0
End Sub
Private Sub Page2_Click()
Me.YourTabControlName = 1
End Sub
and so forth. Notice that the Values for pages is Zero-based, so for Page1
you use 0, for Page2 you use 1, etc.