First, install the Jon's Command's scripting addition (version 3 for OS X,
version 2 for OS 9) if you haven't already. It is freely available at the
author's website.
<http://www.seanet.com/~jonpugh/>
Then, get the "Add BCC or CC" script by Paul Berkowitz. It includes setup
and usage instructions. All you have to do is run the script whenever you
open a new message to have yourself added as a CC recipient.
<http://www.scriptbuilders.net/?search=add+bcc>