Bcc with groups in outlook

[Kevin A.]

I am trying to send an email to a group of recipients.
I'd like the email to show that it is sent To: each
individual recipient. I need the rest of the group to be
hidden from each recipient. If I create a group and put
it in the Bcc field the email is sent From: and To: me
(the sender) even though it is delivered to everyone in
the group. Can I do like the spammers do and have a
single, personalized To: field for everyone in the group?

Thanks for your help,

Kevin A.
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