Ragdyer said:
IT is correct in defending their defined "realm".
I really wasn't trying to insinuate anything different - they're paid to
keep the network safe, so that's their focus. It's like the topside
watch on my old submarine, who insisted (backed with a .45) that I show
my ID before boarding, even though we'd served together for two years. I
really wouldn't have wanted him to make an exception for me, as it would
imply an application of of judgment and possible susceptibility to
outside pressure that could have compromised the security of the boat.
Still, it was a real, if minor, irritant.
Aside from the gender issue (most women I've worked with/for have been
far better than the men at detecting and resisting an attempt to "butter
them up" - I'd like to think it isn't just me), I've had similar
experience with clients and employers.