Try looking at using a UNION query, but I think you will be disappointed.
Unless you have really tight, rigid rules on data entry you will still have lots
of duplicates. To the human they are duplicates, to the computer they are not.
John Spencer 8666 Copper Court CityScape, CO 12345
John P Spencer 8666 Copper Court CityScape, CO 12345
J P Spencer 8666 Copper Court CityScape, CO 12345
John Spencer 8666 Copper Ct CityScape, CO 12345
John Spencer 8666 Copper Ct City Scape, CO 12345
John Spencer 8666 Copper Ct CityScape, CO 12345-2345
John Spencer 8666 Copper Ct CityScape, CO 12345
John Spencer Jr 8666 Copper Ct CityScape, CO 12345
Which of the above are duplicates? NONE to the computer, probably all to the human.
Deduping mail addresses is an expensive business for a very good reason - it is hard.
Combine the lists this way (You can't use the grid to build the query, you must
type the query text)
SELECT NameField, AddressField, CityField, StateField, ZipCode
FROM ListA
UNION
SELECT NameField, AddressField, CityField, StateField, ZipCode
FROM ListB
That will eliminate any records that are exactly the same in all five fields.