I started a top level plan for mine about 18 mths ago, then it
immediately got thrown in the dustbin by the future wife when she saw
it, saying that she'd plan it 'her way'! She immediately took all
responsibility for all tasks and ensuring they were done...suited me
fine, just had to worry about the honeymoon! Drop me a mail and maybe
it will be useful as a starter for 10 to you - or help you to get out
of the responsibilities! ;o)