Actually, Table 2 should be just a list of possible badges and Table 1 should
be all the Kids, and their information. Table 3 should be Kid/Badge. Then,
you will need a form/subform for managing this. The main form should be
based on Table 1 and where you select a kid, and the subform should be based
on Table 3. In your subform, you should have a combo box based on a query
that shows all the possible badges. That combo's query should be based on
table 2 that would include on the current Kid, and the badges not yet
received.
That is the broad picture, If you need more detail, post back.
Thanks for your patience in helping me understand the problem. I think you
have explained it well now.