You just can't have it that way - it's sort of like the accountant who, when
asked for the sum of two plus two, answers "What would you like it to be?"
Duration is a defined term in project managment and you can't redefine it
any more than you can redfine the correct answer to 2+2. It's the amount of
working time as defined by the applicable calendar between the moment when
observable physical activity commences and the moment when the deliverable
is completed. It is positively NOT the time between between when work COULD
begin and the deadline by which it is required to be completed. It is the
estimate of the time reuqired between when it WILL begin and when it
actually WILL end. (And we try to make sure that is well in advance of the
finish deadline whenever possible.) A project schedule is a work schedule,
a tool to help you direct the work so deadlines are met. It is not merely a
list of those deadlines.
How could your total duration be 70 days if the two projects are starting
together, one with a duration of 30 days and the other of 40? Starting at
the same time means they both run in parallel. 30 work-days (6 weeks
typically) after they both start, the first one finishes. The other
continues on for another 10 work-days (2 weeks) when it too finishes. 40
work-days (8 weeks) after they began, BOTH projects are finished. Therefore
the total duration is 40 days. If your schedule is showing 69 days there's
a problem but it's not the one you think it is.